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Just dumped a friend for 10 or 11 years on Facebook. Honestly, I am not even sad or mad about it. The whole situation has helped me realize how important it is to evaluate friendships. If you have the slightest feeling that your friendship with someone is toxic you should cut ties with that person. The whole dumping started with a rude message. I did not even bother responding to that comment. It was pointless to respond to something like that. Honestly, what kind of friend says that to you? I guess it’s the kind of friend that tries to put you down all the time. The kind of friend that says “Look at your hair, do you think that is healthy? Who would do that? NOT A FRIEND. Not someone who questions your beliefs based on speculation. Not someone who constantly contradicts herself when judging others.
The sad part of losing some friends who choose to believe lies and liars (with the liars sometimes being the ‘friends’ whom you never thought would manipulate the truth) while the good part is, you find out who the true ones are. Fates have their own way of dealing with these kinds of people and one day, I’m sure they will find themselves in Karma.
If your “friend” says stuff to try and put you down, you need to evaluate your relationship. HYPOCRITES piss me off more than anything in the world. I do not understand how a person can constantly talk about someone else for being unmarried with kids yet they are in an often worse situation. Well, I’ll be having kids soon out of marriage but I’m glad to shout it out unto your face that I have them only with ONE man.
I am rising above and moving on with my life. :)
2/7/11 12:53 PM
Just dumped a friend for 10 or 11 years on Facebook. Honestly, I am not even sad or mad about it. The whole situation has helped me realize how important it is to evaluate friendships. If you have the slightest feeling that your friendship with someone is toxic you should cut ties with that person. The whole dumping started with a rude message. I did not even bother responding to that comment. It was pointless to respond to something like that. Honestly, what kind of friend says that to you? I guess it’s the kind of friend that tries to put you down all the time. The kind of friend that says “Look at your hair, do you think that is healthy? Who would do that? NOT A FRIEND. Not someone who questions your beliefs based on speculation. Not someone who constantly contradicts herself when judging others.
The sad part of losing some friends who choose to believe lies and liars (with the liars sometimes being the ‘friends’ whom you never thought would manipulate the truth) while the good part is, you find out who the true ones are. Fates have their own way of dealing with these kinds of people and one day, I’m sure they will find themselves in Karma.
If your “friend” says stuff to try and put you down, you need to evaluate your relationship. HYPOCRITES piss me off more than anything in the world. I do not understand how a person can constantly talk about someone else for being unmarried with kids yet they are in an often worse situation. Well, I’ll be having kids soon out of marriage but I’m glad to shout it out unto your face that I have them only with ONE man.
I am rising above and moving on with my life. :)
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